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Men are sharing the things they refuse to compromise on.
require hard work, communication and compromise. The idea that if it’s”meant to be” you’ll just sail along easily down the river to happy-ever-after is nonsense. But while you’ll need to come to an agreement about certain things in your relationship, there will also be some you’re not willing to budge on.
Men on Reddit are sharing examples of things they will not compromise on in relationships…
1.”I’d want them to be as committed as me. I cant imagine a relationship where I have to take the initiative every time. I wouldn’t be sure if they felt the same and it wouldn’t last.”
2.”I collect historical documents like wartime diaries, newspapers from occupied countries, and anything else that catches my fancy. I have been told by a partner that my hobby is lame and that I spend too much time in the past. If someone can’t tolerate my hobby (I don’t really care if they find it interesting, but that’s a bonus) then they can hit the road because it will just continue to cause a rift between us.
3.”I need a partner confident in themselves. I’m too easily swayed to become the ‘feel good’ source where I make sure they don’t feel anxious, self conscious, ugly, etc. I feel bad because I have had a great relationship with a girl that started out super self conscious. But I didn’t recognise the toll it takes on me to be the entire source of validation. It’s not sustainable for me long term.”
4.”I can never date a bad communicator again. Trying to understand feelings, motives, everything with little hints and non-direct language made me lose my mind. I can work through any sort of issue, but I’m not begging to find out what’s on someone’s mind. Be an adult. Speak up.”
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